• Wife, Who Are You Trying to Please?

    In counseling many women, I’ve noticed a glaringly common theme: wives are attempting to please their husbands at all costs. There is no doubt that pleasing your husband is a part of your commitment to the covenant of marriage. Paul acknowledges this when he is actually highlighting one of the…

  • Call Her By Name

    As a domestic abuse counselor, I’m frequently asked by pastors, elders, advocates, and friends—”How can I best help her?” Depending on who is asking, my answer may vary, as each person plays a significant and unique role in helping a victim of domestic violence. While it is certainly of utmost…

  • Responding to Sexual Demands in Marriage

    I have noticed a very disturbing trend among Christians when it comes to the topic of sex in marriage. Christian literature has inundated women with the idea that it is their primary duty to selflessly submit to their husband’s sexual demands without any reservations. I’ve spoken with dear ladies who…